The majority of Malagasy teenagers don’t have any income stream. How to get money is a common question for them. Working hard or being supported? For teen in the northern part of Madagascar, the second option is a common solution. Why do they need to work hard if they can easily go out with an older rich man or woman and get money? For them, “papasosy” and “mamasosy” (Malagasy languages) are the solutions.

In the north of Madagascar, elderly rich men and women provide and support financially to young girls or boys and in return, they satisfy all desires. These people are called “ papasosy” and “ mamasosy”. “Papasosy-mamasosy” means dad for “papa”, mum for “mama” and money for “sosy”. In English, “papasosy” and “mamasosy” are the same concept as sugar daddy and sugar mama. It is how a high number of young people get money.

Being financially supported by the elderly has always existed in Madagascar which is a form of relationship that is not accepted by society and has always been kept as a secret. The decision to take this path is the result of several interconnected factors. For the young people, poverty and unemployment are the first cause of it. Unfortunately, in this northern part of the country, work opportunities are very low, so getting easy-money is the solution. In addition to that, the desire to live comfortably, alongside a lack of motivation, has led to the adoption of this particular lifestyle. Go out with these older person is an opportunity for them to have better life and sometimes, to go abroad

Generally, “papasosy” are foreigners who mostly come from European countries. Generally, they come to Madagascar for a trip, and during their stay, they get a date with a girl, for not only sexual intercourse, but to be take care of. Sometimes, the girl becomes his wife, depending on the circumstances.

“Mamasosy ” are generally a Malagasy woman. She is a wealthy, single or widowed older woman. They go out with a boy, generally for sexual purpose but maybe finding love and companionship too. In return, she offers him gifts and luxuries.

This arrangement can have serious repercussions on the lives of both parties, particularly the younger person. They are aware that the relationship is based on mutual benefit, which may require them to comply with various conditions and instructions from their older partner. Their freedom is often restricted, including limitations on their social interactions and activities. In some cases, these constraints can lead to volatile situations and tragic outcomes.

Easy money is not a solution. It may provide temporary relief but working (hard) is the only way to achieve long-term satisfaction. In situations like these, parents have an important role to play in teaching their children moral lessons and guiding them towards responsible behavior. However, the government also bears a responsibility in addressing the issue, particularly in terms of preventing sexual tourism and addressing unemployment. By creating job opportunities for young people and promoting positive alternatives, the government can help to reduce the prevalence of harmful relationships such as those between “papasosy-mamasosy” and younger partners.

Ultimately, it is up to individuals to make choices about how they live their lives. However, it is important to consider the potential consequences of one’s actions, and to act in ways that are respectful of oneself and others.